You Really Are More Than A Number

You know those commercials that make you cry?  I was really touched by the new Kellogg Special K commercial.  In it, women go shopping in a jean store and discover there are no sizes.  The sales clerks offer to measure them with a tape measure that replaces numbers with words like “charismatic”  Just about every woman I know can relate to how it feels to get depressed in a dressing room.  It is something I see every week.

Last week I helped a young woman looking for a new pair of Silver Jeans.  She told me her waist size, and we found several pair in the style she liked.  With a little trying on, she discovered, to her dismay, that she needed a bigger size.  When she came out of the dressing room, her countenance had completely changed.  She had wilted right in front of my eyes.  I tried to encourage by talking about how each style and fabric will fit a bit differently.  I argued that she shouldn’t focus on the number and instead focus on the fit.  Sadly, she just couldn’t get past the fact that she needed a bigger size.  She left empty handed and depressed.

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Silver Jeans

Oh how I hate that!  Ladies, hear me when I say this.  I dress women of all different body types every day.  I deal with over 200 brands on a regular basis.  I go to market and purchase these brands and talk to their designers four times a year.  I can’t tell you how often I have a designer tell me, “We’ve changed the fit a bit.  Your customers will notice these are a little bigger (or smaller) than before.”  Over the years I have come to the inescapable conclusion that size means nothing.  Truly, all a size means is that in this particular brand and in this particular style, you are this particular size, for now.  That quite possible will change next season.  Any woman who is honest will admit to having a range of sizes in her closet from smaller than she thinks she is to bigger than she wants to be.

It really is time that we stop letting a number define us.  It is most definitely time that we STOP getting depressed when we go into a store and have to take a bigger size.  If you’ve gained weight, okay.  Get motivated and take off a few pounds.  Stay on top of it before it becomes 20 or 3o pounds.  But, if you were feeling good about yourself when you walked into the store, DO NOT let the sizes in the dressing room make you feel sad.   It is a completely arbitrary number.

Just in case you missed the commercial, copy this address into your browser:

https://search.yahoo.com/search?fr=mcafee&type=A211US739&p=special+k+commercial+you+are+more+than+a+number

Buying Quality is the Financially Smart Choice

Recently one of our customers brought in a pair of her favorite Not Your Daughter's Jeans.  Eight years old and washed 1,000 times, the jeans looked amazingly new.  The only sign of their age and wear was a a few rough edges and a seam coming apart on the inner thigh.  Why did she bring them in, you ask?  She wanted us to be able to demonstrate to other customers that quality counts. 

Not Your Daughter's JeansSince then, I've been thinking about how true that is.  At a $110 original purchase price, those jeans cost her about $13.75 a year.  And during those 8 years of wearing her NYDJs she was able to enjoy an incredibly comfortable jean that stretches with her every move yet never stretches out.  She also looked slimmer because the tummy tuck feature helped smooth her mid section.  That is an amazing value. 

Much of the time, it seems that we live in a throw away society.  Everything, from electronics to appliances and yes, clothing are made cheaply and sold cheaply.  It seems the American consumer has forgotten what quality buys her.  Yes, you may have to pay more up front.  Your top may be $60 instead of $35.99 or your jeans may be $110 instead of $40.00 but consider the benefit to you over time.  When you buy quality, you are getting better fabrics and better construction.  The print patterns match all the way around the garment rather than coming together at the seams at odd angles.  The seams are sewn well.  The fabric is a higher grade and will resist pilling.  The garmet has extra features like a tummy tuck or special details and embellishments.  Taken care of properly, it will last longer while still looking new. 

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Take this as a hypothetical- your bargain top for $35.99 will likely need replaced at the end of the year, while your more expensive top will still be in your closet several years from now.  Even if the more expensive top lasted 3 years, it will have cost you $20 a year.  That's a savings of $31.00 ($35.99 – $20 =$15.99.  $15.99 times 2 years = $31) over the less expensive top that fell apart.  So in the end, it was less expensive to buy the more expensive top! 

Now, to be fair, sometimes you can get a really good deal on a high quality item.  When this happens, celebrate!  You are getting the best of both worlds – quality and price.  However, be very suspicious of a garmet that is very inexpensive to begin with.  There is a reason clothing is priced what it is.  Fabrics like rayon are inexpensive and tempermental when you wash them.  Pay attention to the way the item is made.  Are the seams sewn well?  Are the buttons sewn well?  Is the fabric light weight or heavy? Does the print match up?  Is it lined?  What is the fabric?  All of these factors go into determining price. 

Be assured, pricing is not arbitrary and you really do get what you pay for.